Balcom Family

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Identifying the father of Sylvester Balcom

Below, [Balcombe Family] refers to
    Frank W. Balcomb, "A First Book of the Balcombe Family", Peabody, Mass.: Fraedy Press., microfiche #6019757.

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Unrelated (at least not closely):

Jacob BALCOM, father of Sylvester
ABT        1770 born [1830 census]
BET 1797 - 1803 son Sylvester BALCOM born
           1800 there are Jacob Balcoms in
                   Norfolk, Litchfield, CT 10010 00100 (see Jacob of CT)
                   Attleboro, Bristol, MA  11010 02010 (see Jacob of Attleboro)
                   Norton, Bristol, MA     00010 10100 (see Jacob of Rehoboth)
                   From later censuses, we would expect to find
                      1 male 0-10 (Sylvester)
                      1 male 26-45 (Jacob)
                      2 females 0-10
                      1 female 26-45
                   which would be          10010 20010
                   However, the Jacob of Attleboro and the Jacob of Rehoboth
                   are both still there in 1820, and so cannot be our Jacob.
                   Also the Jacob of Framingham MA is a fourth possibility
                   who has not yet been found in the 1800 census.
     6 AUG 1810 possibly in census in Reading Twp., Steuben Co., NY
                   [Ancestry.com]
                   3 males 0-10 (son#2, son#3, son#4) - possibly Augustus
                       and Charles, if this is Jacob of Framingham
                   1 male 10-16 (Sylvester)
                   1 male 26-45 (Jacob)
                   2 females 0-10 (dau#3, dau#4)
                   2 females 10-16 (dau#1, dau#2)
                   1 female 26-45
    
1 JUN 1820 age 45+ in census in Hanover Twp., Chautauqua Co., NY [Source]
                   1 male 0-10 (son#5)
                   1 male 10-16 (son#4)
                   0 males 16-18
                   3 males 16-26 (Sylvester, son#2, son#3)
                   1 male 45+ (Jacob)
                   2 females 0-10 (dau#5, dau#6)
                   1 female 10-16 (dau#4)
                   1 female 45+
           1825 possibly in state census in Gerry, Chautauqua Co., NY [source]
                   All males in family:            1 (Jacob)
                   All females in family:          1
                   Males subject to militia duty:  0
                   Males qualified to vote:        1
                   Aliens, not naturalized:        0
                   Married females under 45:       0
                   Unmarried females 16-45:        0
                   Unmarried females under age 16: 0
                   Births during year preceding:  ---
                   Deaths during year:            ---
                   Acres of improved land occupied by family:
                Note: the above census entry shows no children,
                      whereas Jacob is found with children in both 1820
                      and 1830.  This seems to indicate the entry is for
                      a much younger Jacob Balcom, rather than Jacob the
                      father of Sylvester.
                No Balcoms in Hanover Twp in 1825 state census [source]
                    Jacob was most likely be in Perrysburg, Cattaraugus Co,
                    which I have not checked.
     1 JUN 1830 possibly in census in Perrysburg, Cattaraugus Co., NY
                   [1830 census]
                   1 male 10-15 (son#5)
                   1 male 20-30 (son#4) 
                   1 male 50-60 (Jacob)
                   1 female 0-5 (dau#7)
                   1 female 10-15 (dau#6)
                   3 females 15-20 (?, dau#4, dau#5)
                   1 female 50-60
           1835 not in New York state census


Jacob BALCOM of Framingham MA, son of Isaac and Sarah BALCOM
                father Isaac was a soldier in the Revolution. He served at
                   Bennington in Capt. Stockwell's company of Col. Job
                   Cushing's regiment.  He is recorded in the Vermont census
                   at Newfane in 1790. He shortly afterward joined his brothers
                   in Nova Scotia, as he is recorded in Annapolis in the 1792
                   census. [Dick Miller]
ABT        1770 born in Framingham, Middlesex Co., MA [Balcombe Family] [Dick Miller]
                   [Richard Miller] [OneWorldTree] [Raymond & Irene Pappa] [IGI]
    22 OCT 1771 brother Isaac BALCOM born in Framingham, Middlesex Co, MA
                   [Balcombe Family] [Raymond & Irene Pappa]
     9 JUL 1772 father Isaac remarried Ruth BACON in Barre, Worcester Co, MA
                   [Balcombe Family] [Rutland MA records] [Dick Miller]
    21 SEP 1774 half-sister Betty BALCOM born in Barre, Worcester Co, MA [Balcombe Family]
                   [Dick Miller] 
           1790 father Isaac recorded in the Vermont Census at New Fane, Windham Co,
                   VT [Balcombe Family] [Neil R. Balcom] [Ancestry.com]
                   1 male 16+ (Isaac)
                   2 males 0-16
                   4 females
                   Note: Jacob's uncle Henry BALCOM is also listed.
     9 DEC 1790 brother Isaac BALCOM married Anna BURR in Norfolk, Litchfield Co, CT
                   [Balcombe Family] [Raymond & Irene Pappa] [source] [source]
           1792 father Isaac in Annapolis, Nova Scotia census [Balcombe Family]
                   [Neil R. Balcom]
                married Sarah [Nancy Phillips] [Neil R. Balcom]
    10 MAY 1792 brother Isaac in Norfolk, Litchfield Co, CT [Balcombe Family] [Neil R. Balcom]
           1794 brother Isaac in MA [Neil R. Balcom]
           1800 Isaac BALCOM appears again in New Fane, Windham Co,
                   VT census [Ancestry.com]
                   1 male 0-10
                   1 male 10-16
                   1 male 45+
                   1 female 10-16
                   1 female 16-26
                   1 female 45+
                   Note: Henry BALCOM is also listed.
           1800 an Isaac BALCOM (brother?) also appears in Somerset, Windham Co,
                   CT census [Ancestry.com]
                   1 male 0-10
                   1 male 26-45
                   1 female 0-10
                   1 female 16-26
                   along with a Caleb BALCOM and a Micah BALCOM
ABT        1800 son Augustus born [Neil R. Balcom] [Thomas Hall]
ABT        1802 son Charles born [Janet Balcomb] [Janet Balcomb]
           1810 Isaac BALCOM appears again in Newfane, Windham Co, VT [Ancestry.com]
                   1 male 45+
                   1 female 16-26
                   1 female 45+
           1818 moved to Gowanda, Cattaraugus Co., NY [source]
                reported to have lived at Gowanda, Cattaraugus Co., NY [Balcombe Family]
                   [Dick Miller]
           1820 no Balcoms in census in Cattaraugus Co
           1821 early member (along with Isaac BALCOMB) of Baptist church in
                   Perrysburg, Cattaraugus Co [source]
       DEC 1829 son Augustus married Sarah Catherine AVERILL in Gowanda,
                   Cattaraugus Co, NY [Balcombe Family] [Neil R. Balcom]
     1 JUN 1830 son Augustus age 20-30 in census in Otto, Cattaraugus Co, NY
                   [1830 census]
     1 JUN 1830 in census in Perrysburg, Cattaraugus Co., NY
                   [1830 census]
                   1 male 10-15 (son#5)
                   1 male 20-30 (son#4) 
                   1 male 50-60 (Jacob)
                   1 female 0-5 (dau#7)
                   1 female 10-15 (dau#6)
                   3 females 15-20 (?, dau#4, dau#5)
                   1 female 50-60
      1 JUN 1840 brother Isaac BALCOM in Perrysburg, Cattaraugus Co, NY
                   [1840 census]
                   1 male 10-15
                   1 male 15-20
                   1 male 20-30
                   1 male 60-70 (Isaac 68)
                   1 female 0-5
                   1 female 15-20
                   1 female 20-30
                   1 female 50-60
           1845 at Leon, Cattaraugus Co., NY [Balcombe Family] [Dick Miller]
    10 APR 1858 brother Isaac BALCOM died [Balcombe Family] [Raymond & Irene Pappa]
 

Jacob BALCOM of Connecticut, son of Elias BALCOM and Phoebe FOSTER
          1760s siblings born in Mansfield, Tolland Co, CT
                   [Douglas Smith]
ABT        1770 born in Winchester, Litchfield, CT [Balcombe Family]
                   [Douglas Smith] [Ebbon Carl Balcom] [Raymond & Irene Pappa]
                   [IGI] [IGI]
ABT        1772 brother Joseph born in Winchester, Litchfield, CT
                   [Douglas Smith]
       NOV 1775 christened at First Congregational Church of Winchester [T Wood]
                   [IGI] [Neil R Balcom]
                father Elias BALCOM appears on Honor Roll of Litchfield Co
                   Revolutionary Soldiers for Winchester [source]
    30 DEC 1782 brother Elias married Mary DICKENSON in Winchester, CT [Douglas Smith]
    12 NOV 1783 sister Olive married Samuel STANCLIFF in Winchester, CT [Douglas Smith]
    11 MAR 1785 sister Hannah BALCOM STANCLIFT in Winchester, Litchfield Co, CT
                   [Douglas Smith]
     6 FEB 1786 brother Elias in Winchester, CT [Douglas Smith]
ABT    OCT 1786 sister Elizabeth married Joshua MOSES in Norfolk, CT [Douglas Smith]
           1790 father Elias BALCOM in census in Litchfield, Litchfield, CT
                   [1790 census] [Ancestry.com]
                   4 males 16+
                   2 males 0-16
                   4 females
           1791 sister Olive BALCOM STANCLIFF in Norfolk, CT [Douglas Smith]
         1792/6 father Elias BALCOM died in Norfolk, Litchfield, CT
                   [Raymond & Irene Pappa]
     1 JUL 1796 sister Olive BALCOM STANCLIFF in Sangerfield, Oneida, NY [Douglas Smith]
           1800 in census in Norfolk, Litchfield, CT [1800 census]
                   1 male 0-10
                   1 male 26-45 (Jacob, 30?)
                   1 female 16-26
           1810 no BALCOMs in census in Litchfield Co, CT
                Note: Neil R. Balcom's gedcom contains this note on father Elias BALCOM:
                  "References for this family and succeeding generations was provided by
                  Leslie Quist from the following sources: 1. Attleboro V.R. to 1850
                  pages 39, 336 ; 2.  Mansfield V.R. Vol. D., Pages 204, 207; 3.
                  Mansfield, Conn. Births, Baptisms, etc. by Dimock page 14."


Jacob BALCOM of Rehoboth MA, son of Daniel BALCOM and Rebecca COBB
                (NOT the father of Sylvester, since they are both found
                separately in the 1820 census)
     4 MAY 1769 born in Attleborough or Rehoboth, Bristol Co., MA [Balcombe Family]
                   [OneWorldTree] [Raymond & Irene Pappa] [IGI]
    26 AUG 1774 future wife Matilda PERRY born in Rehoboth, Bristol Co., MA
                   [OneWorldTree]
           1790 father Daniel BALCOM in census in Rehoboth, Bristol Co., MA
                   [1790 census] [transcription as "David"]
                   1 male 16+ (Daniel)
                   1 female (Rebecca)
    20 NOV 1794 married Matilda PERRY in Norton, Bristol Co., MA 
                   and residing in Rehoboth, Bristol Co, MA
                   [Rehoboth MA Vital Records] [Balcombe Family]
                   [OneWorldTree] [Raymond & Irene Pappa]
                daughter Nancy BALCOM born [Balcombe Family]
           1800 in census in Norton, Bristol, MA [1800 census]
                   1 male 26-45 (Jacob, 31)
                   1 female 0-10 (Nancy)
                   1 female 16-26 (Matilda, 26)
           1801 in Norton, Bristol Co., MA [Ancestry.com]
     1 JUN 1820 in census in Rehoboth, Bristol Co, MA [1820 census]
                   1 male 10-16
                   1 male 45+ (Jacob, 51)
                   1 female 45+ (Matilda, 46)
     1 JUN 1830 in census in Rehoboth, Bristol Co, MA [1830 census]
                   1 male 60-70 (Jacob, 61)
                   1 female 50-60 (Matilda, 56)
     1 JUN 1840 in census in Rehoboth, Bristol Co, MA [1840 census]
                   1 male 70-80 (Jacob, 71)
                   1 female 60-70 (Matilda, 66)
     1 JUN 1850 in census in Rehoboth, Bristol Co, MA [1850 census]
                   Jacob Balkcom   81 M Farmer 600 Mass
                   Matilda Balkcom 76 F            Mass
                   David Perry     69 M  None      Mass
    15 OCT 1854 died [Balcombe Family] [OneWorldTree] [Raymond & Irene Pappa]


Jacob BALCOM of Attleboro MA (NOT the father of Sylvester, since they are both
                              found separately in the 1820 census)
    31 MAY 1763 born in Attleboro, Bristol Co., MA [Balcombe Family]
                   [OneWorldTree] [GeorgeAnn Malowney]
    30 JUN 1785 married Tryphena EVERETT in Walpole, MA [Balcombe Family]
                   [OneWorldTree] [GeorgeAnn Malowney]
                   or in Foxborough, Norfolk Co, MA
                   [MA Marriage Index, genealogy.com]
    17 JUN 1786 daughter Nancy BALCOM born [Balcombe Family]
    15 APR 1790 daughter Betsey BALCOM born in Attleboro, Bristol Co, MA
                   [Balcombe Family] [OneWorldTree]
           1790 in census in Attleborough, Bristol Co, MA [Ancestry.com]
                   [transcription]
                   2 males 16+
                   3 females
       SEP 1796 son Everett BALCOM born [Balcombe Family] [Thomas Wright]
           1800 in census in Attleboro, Bristol Co, MA [1800 census]
                   1 male 0-10 (Everett)
                   1 male 10-16
                   1 male 26-45 (Jacob)
                   2 females 10-16 (?, Betsey)
                   1 female 26-45 (Tryphena)
     5 AUG 1805 son Orville Shepard BALCOM born [Thomas Wright]
     1 JUL 1813 daughter Betsey married William TYLER [Balcombe Family] [Thomas Wright]
     1 JUN 1820 in census in Attleboro, Bristol Co, MA [1820 census]
                   1 male 0-10
                   1 male 10-16 (Orville)
                   1 male 45+ (Jacob)
                   1 female 10-16
                   1 female 26-45
                   1 female 45+ (Tryphena)
           1822 daughter Betsey died in Weymouth, MA [Thomas Wright]
ABT        1823 son Everett died, buried in Old Kirke Graveyard, Attleboro,
                   MA [Thomas Wright]
     1 JUN 1830 in census in Attleboro, Bristol, Co, MA [1830 census]
                   1 male 20-30
                   1 male 60-70 (Jacob)
                   1 female 10-15
                   1 female 60-70 (Tryphena)
    29 APR 1839 died in Attleborough, Bristol Co, MA, aged 76 yrs
                   [Mass. Vital Records, genealogy.com] [Balcombe Family]
                   [OneWorldTree] [GeorgeAnn Malowney]
           1839 buried in Old Kirke Graveyard, Attleboro, MA [Thomas Wright]
           1857 son Orville S. died, buried in Old Kirke Graveyard, Attleboro,
                   MA [Thomas Wright]



Villeroy BALCOM, son of Joseph BALCOM and Catherine HAYNES
                   [World Family Tree, at genealogy.com]
                   Note: he may not be related at all to Sylvester, but is
                   included here since Balcom's Corners in Chautauqua Co,
                   New York was named after him.
    25 JUL 1791 born in Templeton, Worcester Co, MA [source] [Balcombe Family]
                   [LG Greene] [Dee Davidson]
ABT        1810 left New England due to disliking the blue laws [Loraine Smith]
           1816 Villeroy BALCOM bought land in Hanover Twp., Chautauqua Co., NY
                  
[source]
    17 AUG 1816 married Anne PUFFER in MA [Balcombe Family] [Dee Davidson]
     1 JUN 1820 in census in Hanover [source]
                   1 male 26-44 (Villeroy)
                   1 female 0-10 (Mary Ann)
                   1 female 16-25
                   1 female 26-44 (Anne)
    24 JAN 1823 Villenova was formed from Hanover [source]
                   Villeroy BALCOM was elected as an assessor.
           1825 Hillery BALCOM in state census in Villenova [source]

                   All males in family:            3
                   All females in family:          6
                   Males subject to militia duty:  0
                   Males qualified to vote:        2
                   Aliens, not naturalized:        0
                   Married females under 45:       1
                   Unmarried females 16-45:        0
                   Unmarried females under age 16: 4
                   Births during year preceding:  ---
                   Deaths during year:            ---
                   Acres of improved land occupied by family: 30
    14 DEC 1826 postmaster in Villenova [source] [Dee Davidson]
           1827 Villeroy BALCOM bought land in Villenova, Chautauqua Co., NY
                  
[source]
     1 JUN 1830 in census in Villenova, Chautauqua Co., NY [1830 census]
           1835 not in New York state census
     2 FEB 1868 died age 76 in Villenova, Chautauqua Co, NY [source] [Balcombe Family]
                   [LG Greene]
                buried in Villenova Cemetery near Balcom's Corners,
                   which was named after him.  He reportedly operated a
                   tavern at the corners. [Tim Nobles]

 

Sylvester BALCOM, probably son of Jacob BALCOM
ABT   1790-1800 born [1830 census]
ABT        1803 born in US [1861 census]
     6 AUG 1810 possibly age 10-16 in census in Reading Twp., Steuben Co., NY
                   [Ancestry.com]
                    3 males 0-10
                    1 male 10-16 (Sylvester)
                    1 male 26-45 (Jacob)
                    2 females 0-10
                    2 females 10-16
                    1 female 26-45 (Matilda)
    
1 JUN 1820 age 16-26 in census in Hanover Twp., Chautauqua Co., NY [Source]
                    1 male 0-10
                    1 male 10-16
                    0 males 16-18
                    3 males 16-26 (Sylvester, ?, ?)
                    1 male 45+ (Jacob)
                    2 females 0-10
                    1 female 10-16
                    1 female 45+ (Matilda)
                married Lucinda STAFFORD
     1 JUN 1830 age 30-40 in census in Hanover Twp., Chautauqua Co., NY [Source]
                    1 male 5-10 (Perry)
                    1 male 30-40 (Sylvester)
                    1 female 30-40 (Lucinda)
                    Note: father-in-law David STAFFORD is next door.
           1835 not in New York state census
           1861 age 58 in census in Vienna Twp., Elgin Co., Ontario [1861 census]
                    Sylvester Balcom Sawyer    US   WM 58  Frame 1 1/2 story
                    Lucinda Balcom             US   "  56
                    (WM is the religion)
    24 NOV 1866 wife "Polly L." BALCOM died age 64 years,
                    Estherville Cemetery, Bayham Twp., Elgin Co., Ontario [Source]
           1868 on son Perry's death record, Sylvester's place of current residence
                    is listed as New York [Perry Balcom death record]


Perry BALCOM, son of Sylvester BALCOM and Lucinda STAFFORD
ABT        1821 born in US [1861 census]
CAL 19 OCT 1822 born in Canada [death record]
     1 JUN 1830 age 30-40 in census in Hanover Twp., Chautauqua Co., NY [Source]
                    1 male 5-10 (Perry)
                    1 male 30-40 (Sylvester)
                    1 female 30-40 (Lucinda)
           1861 age 40 in census in Vienna Twp., Elgin Co., Ontario [1861 census]
                    Perry Balcom  Mariner    US     Baptist 40 Frame 1 1/2 story
                    Eliza Balcom          Nova Scotia  "    38
                    Herman Balcom          UCanada     "    10
                    Edw'd Balcom              "        "     8
                    Jno. N Balcom             "        "     6
                    Chas. Balcom              "        "     2
                    Amanda Balcom          UCanada  Baptist 19
                    Malvina Balcom            "        "     4 
     4 MAY 1868 died of cancer at age 45y 6m 15d in Ravenna, Muskegon Co., MI
                    [death record]
                    Father: Sylvester Balcome  Residence New York
                    Mother: Stafford     "          ------
                    Occupation: sailor
    15 DEC 1918 son Herman Z. BALCOM died in Aylmer [source]
                   

Charles A. BALCOM
       OCT 1829 born in New York [1880 census]
       ABT 1867 married Jane ________ [1880 census]
      1868-1870 moved to Michigan [1880 census]
       FEB 1875 daughter Rosie M. born in Michigan [1900 census]
       JUL 1877 son Rutherford B. born [FindAGrave] [1900 census] [1910 census]
     1 JUN 1880 in census in Grand Rapids, Kent Co., MI [1880 census]
                    Balcom Chas. A.    W M 50          M Machinist     New York New York New York
                     ---   Jane        W F 38 Wife     M Keeping House New York England  England
                     ---   Geo. G.     W M 12 Son      S At School     New York New York New York
                     ---   Norman J.   W M  9 Son      S At School     Michigan New York New York
                     ---   Rosie M.    W F  5 Daughter S At School     Michigan New York New York
                    Balcom Rutherford  W M  2 Son      S               Michigan New York New York
           1900 in census in Grand Rapids, Kent Co., MI [1900 census]
                    Balcom Charles Head     W M Oct   1829 70 M 33     New York New York Connecticut
                           Jane    Wife     W F April 1842 58 M 33 4 4 New York England  England
                           Rose    Daughter W F Feb   1875 25 S        Michigan New York New York
                         Rutherford Son     W M July  1877 22 S        Michigan New York New York
           1910 son Rutherford in census in Grand Rapids [1910 census]
                    Balcom Rutherford B.  Head M W 32 M 5     Michigan New York  New York
                           Adelaid L.     Wife F W 33 M 5 0 0 Michigan Can.Engl. Michigan
           1962 son Rutherford died, buried in Oakhill Cemetery, Grand Rapids [FindAGrave]

Augustus BALCOM, son of Jacob of Framingham, and hence brother of Sylvester BALCOM
ABT        1800 born [Neil R. Balcom] [Thomas Hall]
     6 AUG 1810 possibly in census in Reading Twp., Steuben Co., NY
                   [Ancestry.com]
                   3 males 0-10 (Charles, Sylvester, son#4)
                   1 male 10-16 (Augustus)
                   1 male 26-45 (Jacob)
                   2 females 0-10 (dau#3, dau#4)
                   2 females 10-16 (dau#1, dau#2)
                   1 female 26-45
           1818 moved to Gowanda, Cattaraugus Co., NY [source]

     1 JUN 1820 age 45+ in census in Hanover Twp., Chautauqua Co., NY [Source]
                   1 male 0-10 (son#5)
                   1 male 10-16 (son#4)
                   0 males 16-18
                   3 males 16-26 (Augustus, Charles, Sylvester)
                   1 male 45+ (Jacob)
                   2 females 0-10 (dau#5, dau#6)
                   1 female 10-16 (dau#4)
                   1 female 45+

       DEC 1829 married Sarah Catherine AVERILL in Gowanda, Cattaraugus Co,
                   NY [Balcombe Family] [Neil R. Balcom]
     1 JUN 1830 age 20-30 in census in Otto, Cattaraugus Co, NY [1830 census]
                   1 male 0-5 
                   1 male 20-30 (Augustus)
                   1 female 20-30 (Sarah)
ABT        1834 daughter Mary Mercy BALCOM born in Gowanda (Lodi)
                   [Debra Fullerton, World Family Tree]
                died
ABT        1850 wife Sarah remarried ? MEERS [Debra Fullerton, World Family Tree]
ABT        1869 wife Sarah died in Ma-kata, IA [Debra Fullerton, World Family Tree]
                wife Sarah died in Iowa [OneWorldTree] [Doug Schueths]
 


Identifying the father of Sylvester Balcom

In 1830, Sylvester Balcom who married Lucinda Stafford, is found in Hanover Twp., Chautauqua Co., NY, living next door to the Stafford family.  In 1820, Jacob Balcom (but no other Balcom) is found in the same location, age 45+, with a son (among others) the right age to be Sylvester Balcom, so we assume this is the father of Sylvester.  There are 3 males age 16-26, and the youngest under 10, so we assume that the oldest would be at least 20, making Jacob married before 1800.

A search of other censuses and Internet sources revealed that there were four Jacob Balcoms born around 1770, which we will refer to as Jacob of Connecticut, Jacob of Attleboro (Mass.), Jacob of Rehoboth (Mass.), and Jacob of Framingham (Mass.).  Checking Frank W. Balcomb, "A First Book of the Balcombe Family", Peabody, Mass.: Fraedy Press., microfiche #6019757, confirmed that there were exactly four Jacob Balcoms born around 1770, which descend from (between them) three different Balcom immigrants.

We now wish to determine which of those four Jacob Balcoms could be the father of Sylvester Balcom.

In the 1820 census, when Jacob the father of Sylvester was in Hanover Twp, two other Jacob Balcoms are found in other locations: Attleboro (Mass.), and Rehoboth (Mass.).  This rules out those two, leaving either Jacob of Connecticut or Jacob of Framingham.  We now look more closely at those two.

According to the Balcomb book, Jacob of Connecticut was born about 1770 in Winchester, Litchfield Co., CT., with older siblings born in Mansfield, Tolland Co., CT.  His siblings married in either Winchester or Norfolk, in the same county.  In 1790, the family is found in Litchfield, Litchfield Co, CT.  In the 1800 census, Jacob is now married, with one son under 10, living in Norfolk, Litchfield Co, CT.  One sister is known to have previously moved to Oneida Co. in central NY.  In 1810 and after, no Jacob Balcoms are found in Connecticut.  Hence while there is no evidence that conclusively rules out Jacob of Connecticut, there is also no evidence yet that he survived beyond 1810, and no evidence yet that links him to western NY.

Jacob of Framingham was born about 1770 in Framingham, Middlesex Co., MA.  In 1790, per the Balcomb book, his father Isaac was in the census in New Fane, Windham Co., VT (and a search of this census confirmed this, but there is no male of Jacob’s age there), and in 1792 was in the Annapolis, Nova Scotia census.  Jacob had a son Augustus about 1800 and probably had other children as well according to the Balcomb book.  One Internet source shows another son Charles born about 1802.  The Balcomb book states that Jacob was reported to have lived at Gowanda (in Persia Twp, with Gowanda bordering Perrysburg Twp), Cattaraugus Co., NY, and was at Leon, Cattaraugus Co., NY in 1845.  A Gowanda history on the Internet confirms that a Jacob Balcom moved there in 1818, and a history of Perrysburg Twp. lists Jacob Balcomb as a member of the Baptist church there in 1821.  There are no Jacob Balcombs in Cattaraugus Co., NY in the 1820 census, but in 1830, Jacob and Augustus are both found in the county, Jacob in Perrysburg Twp., and Augustus in Otto Twp.

The following facts argue that Jacob father of Sylvester is indeed Jacob of Framingham:

1)      Hanover Twp in Chautauqua Co. borders Perrysburg Twp Cattaraugus Co.  The father of Sylvester was in the former in 1820.  Jacob of Framingham is not in Cattaraugus Co in the 1820 census, but attended church in the latter location in 1821 so must have lived nearby in 1820 (having moved to the area in 1818).  This strongly suggests that they are the same person, with Jacob living just across the county line into Hanover Twp in 1820, with a minor move into Cattaraugus Co by 1830.

2)      Jacob of Framingham is believed (by the author of the Balcom book) to have other unlisted children in addition to Augustus, and Sylvester’s birth year of “about 1803” (from his age in the 1861 Ontario census) is not in conflict with the birth years of Augustus (abt.1800) and Charles (abt.1802).

3)      The children’s ages listed in the 1820 census of Hanover Twp, and in the 1830 census of Perrysburg Twp line up such that we must assume they are the same family.  In the 1820 census of Hanover Twp, there are (among other children) 3 sons age 16-26, which would be Augustus, Charles, and Sylvester.

This gives the following combined timeline:

Jacob BALCOM, father of Sylvester, son of Isaac and Sarah BALCOM
               father Isaac was a soldier in the Revolution. He served at
                   Bennington in Capt. Stockwell's company of Col. Job
                   Cushing's regiment.  He is recorded in the Vermont census
                   at Newfane in 1790. He shortly afterward joined his brothers
                   in Nova Scotia, as he is recorded in Annapolis in the 1792
                   census. [Dick Miller]
ABT        1770 born in Framingham, Middlesex Co., MA [Balcombe Family] [Dick Miller]
                   [Richard Miller] [OneWorldTree] [Raymond & Irene Pappa] [IGI]
                   [1830 census]
    22 OCT 1771 brother Isaac BALCOM born in Framingham, Middlesex Co, MA
                   [Balcombe Family] [Raymond & Irene Pappa]
     9 JUL 1772 father Isaac remarried Ruth BACON in Barre, Worcester Co, MA
                   [Balcombe Family] [Rutland MA records] [Dick Miller]
    21 SEP 1774 half-sister Betty BALCOM born in Barre, Worcester Co, MA
                   [Balcombe Family] [Dick Miller]
           1790 father Isaac recorded in the Vermont Census at New Fane, Windham Co,
                   VT [Balcombe Family] [Neil R. Balcom] [Ancestry.com]
                   1 male 16+ (Isaac)
                   2 males 0-16
                   4 females
                   Note: Jacob's uncle Henry BALCOM is also listed.
     9 DEC 1790 brother Isaac BALCOM married Anna BURR in Norfolk, Litchfield Co, CT
                   [Balcombe Family] [Raymond & Irene Pappa] [source] [source]
           1792 father Isaac in Annapolis, Nova Scotia census [Balcombe Family]
                   [Neil R. Balcom]
                married Sarah [Nancy Phillips] [Neil R. Balcom]
    10 MAY 1792 brother Isaac in Norfolk, Litchfield Co, CT [Balcombe Family]
                   [Neil R. Balcom]
           1794 brother Isaac in MA [Neil R. Balcom]  
           1800 Isaac BALCOM appears again in New Fane, Windham Co,
                   VT census [Ancestry.com]
                   1 male 0-10
                   1 male 10-16
                   1 male 45+
                   1 female 10-16
                   1 female 16-26
                   1 female 45+
                   Note: Henry BALCOM is also listed.
           1800 an Isaac BALCOM (brother?) also appears in Somerset, Windham Co,
                   CT census [Ancestry.com]
                   1 male 0-10
                   1 male 26-45
                   1 female 0-10
                   1 female 16-26
                   along with a Caleb BALCOM and a Micah BALCOM
ABT        1800 son Augustus born [Neil R. Balcom] [Thomas Hall]
ABT        1802 son Charles born [Janet Balcomb] [Janet Balcomb]
BET 1797 - 1803 son Sylvester BALCOM born
     6 AUG 1810 possibly in census in Reading Twp., Steuben Co., NY
                   [Ancestry.com]
                   3 males 0-10 (Charles, Sylvester, son#4)
                   1 male 10-16 (Augustus)
                   1 male 26-45 (Jacob)
                   2 females 0-10 (dau#3, dau#4)
                   2 females 10-16 (dau#1, dau#2)
                   1 female 26-45
           1810 Isaac BALCOM appears again in Newfane, Windham Co, VT [Ancestry.com]
                   1 male 45+
                   1 female 16-26
                   1 female 45+
           1818 moved to Gowanda, Cattaraugus Co., NY [source]
                reported to have lived at Gowanda, Cattaraugus Co., NY [Balcombe Family]
                   [Dick Miller]
    
1 JUN 1820 age 45+ in census in Hanover Twp., Chautauqua Co., NY [Source]
                   1 male 0-10 (son#5)
                   1 male 10-16 (son#4)
                   0 males 16-18
                   3 males 16-26 (Augustus, Charles, Sylvester)
                   1 male 45+ (Jacob)
                   2 females 0-10 (dau#5, dau#6)
                   1 female 10-16 (dau#4)
                   1 female 45+
           1821 early member (along with Isaac BALCOMB) of Baptist church in
                   Perrysburg, Cattaraugus Co [source]
                No Balcoms in Hanover Twp in 1825 state census [source]
                    Jacob was most likely be in Perrysburg, Cattaraugus Co,
                    which I have not checked.
       DEC 1829 son Augustus married Sarah Catherine AVERILL in Gowanda,
                   Cattaraugus Co, NY [Balcombe Family] [Neil R. Balcom]
     1 JUN 1830 son Augustus age 20-30 in census in Otto, Cattaraugus Co, NY
                   [1830 census]
     1 JUN 1830 in census in Perrysburg, Cattaraugus Co., NY
                   [1830 census]
                   1 male 10-15 (son#5)
                   1 male 20-30 (son#4) 
                   1 male 50-60 (Jacob)
                   1 female 0-5 (dau#7)
                   1 female 10-15 (dau#6)
                   3 females 15-20 (?, dau#4, dau#5)
                   1 female 50-60
           1835 not in New York state census
     1 JUN 1840 brother Isaac BALCOM in Perrysburg, Cattaraugus Co, NY
                   [1840 census]
                   1 male 10-15
                   1 male 15-20
                   1 male 20-30
                   1 male 60-70 (Isaac 68)
                   1 female 0-5
                   1 female 15-20
                   1 female 20-30
                   1 female 50-60
           1845 at Leon, Cattaraugus Co., NY [Balcombe Family] [Dick Miller]
    10 APR 1858 brother Isaac BALCOM died [Balcombe Family] [Raymond & Irene Pappa]